AITA for not having S*x with my husband after what happened to me left me struggling to heal?

Soren:

Was I wrong for not being ready for S*x with my husband while I’m still trying to recover from SA, nightmares, and constant anxiety, or is it completely reasonable to expect patience, understanding, and real emotional support during a time like this? I really want to know what you would think if you were in my position, because right now I feel torn between guilt, grief, and the feeling that I’m being asked to heal on someone else’s schedule.