AITA for telling my ex-husband’s new girlfriend “I have no idea” when she asked me if he ever gets better about birthdays?

Soren:

Was I wrong for answering honestly when my ex-husband’s new girlfriend asked me if he ever gets better about birthdays, or was that simply the truth after years of experience with him never caring about those things? And if you were in my place, would you ignore her messages and stay completely out of it, or would you send one polite response and warn her that this is just who he has always been?

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